Mixed Marriages

I have a mixed marriage, by which I mean my wife is an atheist, and I am not.

I phrase it that way for a reason. The choice is not Atheism or (name a religion), the choice is Atheism or any religion.

Most folks just aren’t wired to consider a range of views. It is ever so much easier to view the world as “us” and “them”, simple binary terms of “with us” or “against us”, and I have noticed a growing insulation, “us” is turning into “me.” It does not need to be this way, with the ease of communication there is no reason for people to be less informed about the world than they were in the past.

There’s a word for people who are uninformed. It is not considered a compliment, nor should it be. Anyone can be misinformed , but to be uninformed is to be ignorant. In 2014, to be uninformed is a conscious choice. I cannot understand why anyone would choose ignorance, I would say I do not want to understand, but I would like to know. Understanding ignorance carries the danger of finding mental numbness attractive.

I have tried to understand atheism, it is a belief system, and like any religion should be evaluated by any seriously spiritual person. Yes, it is a religion. It is based on faith, a faith without evidence, no different than any other religion including my own. I believe that God speaks to me. For someone who has closed their mind to God such a claim is absurd, bordering on mental illness. The Atheist believes that God does not exist. For someone who speaks to God such a claim is absurd, bordering on blindness.

But atheism is not a block, a single set of beliefs, anymore than any other religion. Within Christianity there are two major sects, Catholicism and Protestantism, and within those sects thousands of divisions. There are probably a hundred groups calling themselves “Baptists”, many of whom would not care to be in the same room with each other. Atheism is similar, because there is nothing uniting about rebellion, and often rebellion is the root of atheism.

Choosing not to believe in God is not quite as simple as it might sound. Which God? By definition, atheism is the belief that no God exists, not the Christian’s Gods, or the Muslim’s Gods, or the Hindu’s Gods (I use the term “Gods” when referring to monotheistic religions because the different sects within the religion define God differently). Most if not all atheists stopped at the first God they ran into, the God of their family religion.

Richard Dawkins, who presents himself as a professional atheist and “rationalist”, suggests in his book “The God Delusion” that “a supernatural creator almost certainly does not exist and that religious faith is a delusion” which is fairly astray from rational if he actually is an atheist. “Almost certainly does not exist” is not quite the same as “does not exist”, so it would appear the one who is deluded is the wanker who paid twenty six dollars for a book about atheism. Dawkins has argued against creation, and intelligent design, for decades, yet he admits the existence of a creator. He just refuses to call him “God”. He is in this way no different from the people who call themselves “Baptists” and spread hate. They both have defined God to suit their own ungodly interests. They both serve their own egos, swindling other confused souls to provide them with a living.

 

 

If you have watched the video, you may find yourself uncomfortable with someone who refers to himself as a scientist claiming “no one knows how the creation of the universe began.” I’m pretty sure everyone knows how it began, we’re just quibbling over who pushed the “Start Universe Here” button. To hear him state the universe didn’t just “pop into existence” must be confusing not only to all the religious people of the world, but also to those who subscribe to a creator-less “big bang”. It thoroughly baffles a person like me who believes that the big bang was God’s method of creation. But then, con men rarely make sense if you actually listen to them.

There are as many ways to not believe in a God as there are to believe in a God, and the arguments all come to the same point. We all believe something, what we believe is between us and eternity.

 

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3 comments on “Mixed Marriages

  1. Mari Collier says:

    It’s not everyone that can refute a scientific premise and the Bible at the same time.

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  2. I have a scientific mind (and degree) and on all other matters require ‘proof’. As to the existence of God I tend to waive my logic, and rely on the theory of the Big Bang. On the other hand, what pulled that switch? It’s like giving yourself over to the concept of space/time. Mind blowing.

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  3. Mike R says:

    The rise of plasma-theory cosmology is tossing everyone from Newton to Einstein in the “things we used to believe” bin. If the universe is as large as currently believed than it is reasonable to suggest that plasma-theory is only a step closer to a much grander truth. Mortal man suffers from a fatal infection of pride, imaging himself able to scientifically prove or disprove the existence of the supernatural. (But when one only has a ruler, everything one measures can only be defined in inches.) Mankind cannot conquer war, poverty, hate, or disease, or reliably predict the weather in 5 days, yet he imagines himself able to determine the means by wish the universe and his own DNA came to exist. Rather than think himself possibly the creation and possession of a higher being, he fashions gods out of his own reflection, finding comfort in their deity. Thus he erects a pantheon of biology, physics, chemistry, and mathematics. And for the fringes that science cannot assuage his doubts, he adds temples of psychology and sociology. And in the end he is merely another meal for worms. For such a being to decide the existence or nonexistence of the supernatural is no more than hubris. Far better a man claim to not know or understand such things. Ignorance is forgivable.

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